Posted by rachel on 6/13/2006, 10:34 am, in reply to "Re: Are you really happy not knowing?" just trying to be more patient when your H is cranky, will eventually grate on you. problems need to be addressed, and while your H is in the dark about the M, then issues are being 'papered' over. your H will happily go about day-to-day as he is now, and he has been denied a chance to analyse his role in your M. why don't you go into counselling and approach it that way? trying to hide this could potentially cause much more trouble. secrets are destructive, especially when you have committed to a person, and they tend to come to the surface eventually.
i agree too. i wouldn't wish your H the pain and emotions that he will go through, but A's generally happen when other things are going wrong in a relationship.
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