Posted by Liza on 6/13/2006, 6:44 am Noted that FedUp last commented,"Crazy , but I was happier not knowing." (5/1/06) I posted my story and got an earlier advise not to tell my H. I messed up and want to lead a new life. I know honesty is the best policy. But also "what he does not know wont hurt him". I still love my H and really, really want to make the marriage work out. I followed the advises I got. Instead of telling my husband, I told my brother of the A instead and made myself accountable to him. He talked to the OM frankly and warned him not to push for the relationship as I dont want it anymore or he will do something the OM will regret. I think this made the OM afraid of being exposed so in 3 weeks, he rarely go to the office. This gave me a feeling of freedom and I am not scared anymore. As to my H, we are getting close again and I am again appreciating and enjoying his company. Maybe because of my sin, I am more patient and understanding now when he gets cranky. I hope this lasts... Can I ask other opinions please? Thank you.
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