Posted by rachel on 6/10/2006, 3:36 pm, in reply to "Re: abby and kay" even if you don't get to do what you want, just being assertive enough to say "actually, i just want 20 min to myself", can do wonders. my H is on a stag weekend now, and it's torture! but i've told him what i find acceptable and what i do not. now i have to give some trust, or how else do i know whether he has learned? you have to look within yourself. what do you want to do that people do not think possible of you? it doesn't have to be extreme. it can be as simple as having your hair coloured differently. think of yourself X rachel
i struggle. but i've learned to speak up more for myself. there are things i want to do, but can't afford at the moment - but they've been postponed, not cancelled.
he knows the consequences for definite now!
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