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Welcome to "After the Affair" discussion forum. The topic is recovery after the affair. Recovery requires concerted effort from both partners. Therefore I encourage posts from those who had the affair as well as those who have not. I also encourage children whose parents had an affair to contribute, whether you are now an adult or are still a child.

For professional resources go to www.willingspirits.com. Read After the Affair, (free on line)a brief introduction to the recovery process.

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Gigi - grace 5/11/2008, 2:22 pm

What To Do ...mmm? - Tom 4/10/2008, 3:25 pm

Re: What To Do ...mmm? - Lily 4/18/2008, 11:20 am
- Re: What To Do ...mmm? - rachel 5/4/2008, 8:06 pm
Re: What To Do ...mmm? - Joy 4/12/2008, 2:41 pm
- Re: What To Do ...mmm? - Sophia 4/15/2008, 7:16 pm

my husband cheated on myspace - beth 2/22/2008, 5:58 pm
- Re: my husband cheated on myspace - Lily 3/1/2008, 10:53 am
- Re: my husband cheated on myspace - Joy 2/29/2008, 8:06 pm
- Re: my husband cheated on myspace - JohnnyB 2/28/2008, 9:46 am
- Re: my husband cheated on myspace - Becky 2/24/2008, 10:04 pm
Divorce? - MTVNetwork 2/22/2008, 5:24 pm
MTV:True Life - Divorce Casting Call - MTV Network 2/11/2008, 10:36 am
- Re: MTV:True Life - Divorce Casting Call - JohnnyB 2/13/2008, 7:11 am
  - Re: MTV:True Life - Divorce Casting Call - Lily 2/13/2008, 10:04 am
Still in Love - gayle 1/29/2008, 2:54 pm
- Re: Still in Love - Lily 2/6/2008, 10:08 am
- Re: Still in Love - Joy 2/1/2008, 1:42 pm
- Re: Still in Love - sophia 1/29/2008, 10:29 pm
  - Re: Still in Love - Gayle 1/30/2008, 12:52 pm
    - Re: Still in Love - Sophia 1/30/2008, 9:09 pm
Does Therapy Really Work - Sill 1/11/2008, 12:16 pm
- Re: Does Therapy Really Work - Lily 1/14/2008, 11:30 am
- Re: Does Therapy Really Work - some guy 1/12/2008, 12:56 pm
- Re: Does Therapy Really Work - Sophia 1/12/2008, 8:22 am
New Here - Sill 1/8/2008, 10:52 am
- Re: New Here - Sill 1/9/2008, 4:38 pm
  - Re: New Here - some guy 1/10/2008, 11:28 am
- Re: New Here - Lily 1/9/2008, 11:14 am
- Sill - Things will get better - Sophia 1/8/2008, 7:12 pm
My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - Danielle 12/31/2007, 9:01 pm
- Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - sophia 1/2/2008, 1:48 pm
- Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - down the tubes 1/2/2008, 12:31 am
- Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - Lily 1/1/2008, 10:36 am
  - Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - JohnnyB 1/2/2008, 5:43 pm
    - Re: My ex lover will not leave me alone.... - Chloe 4/3/2008, 5:01 am
Gigi - grace 12/19/2007, 10:36 pm
My Update - grace 12/19/2007, 10:32 pm
- Re: My Update - JohnnyB 1/2/2008, 5:39 pm
- Re: My Update - Lily 12/27/2007, 11:08 am
- Re: My Update - sophia 12/20/2007, 12:32 pm
  - Re: My Update - grace 12/23/2007, 10:42 pm
What else?: The Affair - Help Me! 11/26/2007, 11:46 pm
- Re: What else?: The Affair - Lily 11/28/2007, 11:36 am
  - Re: What else?: The Affair - Help Me! 11/28/2007, 7:58 pm
    - Re: What else?: The Affair - Lily 11/29/2007, 11:02 am
    - Therapy - Sophia 11/29/2007, 8:11 am
- Re: What else?: The Affair - Sophia 11/27/2007, 2:14 pm
  - Re: What else?: The Affair - Help Me! 11/27/2007, 3:43 pm
Not sure - Gigi 11/13/2007, 11:35 pm
- Back - Autumn 12/14/2007, 5:24 pm
- Re: Not sure - bob 11/19/2007, 9:35 am
- Re: Not sure - some guy 11/15/2007, 10:45 am
- Thanks - Gigi 11/14/2007, 6:12 pm
  - Re: Thanks - Lily 11/15/2007, 10:22 am
- Re: Not sure - LG 11/14/2007, 2:33 pm
- I am so sorry - Lily 11/14/2007, 10:14 am
- Oh Gigi - Sophia 11/14/2007, 9:00 am
Making a Necessary Choice? - Sharon 11/7/2007, 4:59 pm
- Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - Sophia 11/13/2007, 9:15 pm
- Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - Lily 11/9/2007, 11:02 am
- Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - some guy 11/8/2007, 4:58 pm
  - Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - sharon 11/8/2007, 5:16 pm
    - Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - Patience 11/12/2007, 1:37 pm
    - Re: Making a Necessary Choice? - some guy 11/8/2007, 5:36 pm
Someone with experience? - Jenn 11/6/2007, 6:54 pm
- Re: Someone with experience? - Sophia 11/13/2007, 9:22 pm
- Re: Someone with experience? - Lily 11/9/2007, 10:55 am
- Re: Someone with experience? - Patience 11/7/2007, 4:22 pm
Is This Marrige Over ? - Stan 10/24/2007, 5:41 am
- Re: Is This Marrige Over ? - Sophia 10/29/2007, 7:58 pm
- Re: Is This Marrige Over ? - Lily 10/26/2007, 10:58 am
Trust - Patience 9/24/2007, 4:19 pm
- Re: Trust - Sophia 9/25/2007, 8:52 am
OH MY GOODNESS - Suzi 9/22/2007, 7:07 pm
- Catching up - Suzi 10/6/2007, 7:55 pm
  - Re: Catching up - Sophia 10/6/2007, 9:31 pm
- Re: OH MY GOODNESS - Lily 9/29/2007, 10:52 am
- Re: OH MY GOODNESS - marci 9/26/2007, 9:44 pm
- Hi Suzie dear - Sophia 9/24/2007, 10:09 pm
- Re: OH MY GOODNESS - Joy 9/23/2007, 5:00 pm
Back to say Hello - Vicky 9/19/2007, 7:03 pm
- Re: Back to say Hello - marci 9/26/2007, 9:47 pm
- Re: Back to say Hello - Suzi 9/22/2007, 7:10 pm
- Re: Back to say Hello - Sophia 9/21/2007, 7:41 pm
- Re: Back to say Hello - Joy 9/19/2007, 9:51 pm
(no subject) - LOST 9/17/2007, 12:08 pm
- Re: (no subject) - Lily 9/19/2007, 10:04 am
  - Re: (no subject) - Lost 9/28/2007, 1:16 pm
- Re: Still seeing the OM.. - Joy 9/18/2007, 7:34 pm
anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - some guy 9/7/2007, 9:15 pm
- Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - Becky 1/22/2008, 9:19 pm
- Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - grace 11/2/2007, 1:16 pm
  - Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - Chloe 4/2/2008, 9:03 am
- Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - Lily 9/15/2007, 12:41 pm
- Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - marci 9/14/2007, 7:28 pm
- Re: anyone remember sun13, amer, etc? - Joy 9/8/2007, 10:56 pm
flashback - Abby 8/17/2007, 9:05 pm
- Re: flashback - Sophia 8/25/2007, 8:46 am
- Re: flashback - Joy 8/17/2007, 9:32 pm
  - Re: flashback - JohnnyB 8/22/2007, 9:44 am
(no subject) - lost 8/2/2007, 4:32 pm
- Re: (no subject) - tam 8/20/2007, 10:17 am
- lost.... - JohnnyB 8/3/2007, 8:21 am
- Re: (no subject) - Sophia 8/2/2007, 9:28 pm
- Re: Women's infidelity - Joy 8/2/2007, 7:12 pm
  - View This - Harpreet 4/26/2008, 3:54 am
  - Re: Women's infidelity - Lost 8/3/2007, 10:46 am
    - Re: Women's infidelity - Patience 8/6/2007, 3:48 pm
      - Re: Women's infidelity - lost 8/10/2007, 5:18 pm
        
        Re: Women's infidelity - Patience 8/13/2007, 2:44 pm
        
        Re: Women's infidelity - lost 8/13/2007, 4:18 pm
Liz - marci 7/28/2007, 8:54 pm
JUST DROPPED IN TO SEE WHAT CONDITION MY CONDITION WAS IN - LOUISE 7/19/2007, 9:35 pm
- Re: JUST DROPPED IN TO SEE WHAT CONDITION MY CONDITION WAS IN - Joy 7/20/2007, 8:23 pm
  - Re: JUST DROPPED IN TO SEE WHAT CONDITION MY CONDITION WAS IN - louise 7/20/2007, 8:55 pm
- Re: JUST DROPPED IN TO SEE WHAT CONDITION MY CONDITION WAS IN - Sophia 7/20/2007, 8:00 am
Anxiety causing hives - Chris 7/16/2007, 1:44 pm
- Re: Anxiety causing hives - some guy 7/31/2007, 3:14 pm
- Re: Anxiety causing hives - Lily 7/20/2007, 10:31 am
- Re: Anxiety causing hives - Joy 7/16/2007, 7:32 pm
- Re: Anxiety causing hives - Patience 7/16/2007, 2:05 pm

doubt - lost 7/14/2007, 8:04 pm

Re: doubt - Patience 7/16/2007, 2:37 pm
Re: doubt - Lily 7/16/2007, 10:05 am
- Re: doubt - lost 7/16/2007, 10:52 am
Re: doubt - Joy 7/15/2007, 11:29 am
- Re: doubt - lost 7/16/2007, 10:20 am
Re: doubt - Sophia 7/14/2007, 11:01 pm
- Re: doubt - lost 7/16/2007, 10:34 am

My Head is a Mess - Patience 7/6/2007, 9:06 am
- Re: My Head is a Mess - Lily 7/6/2007, 9:42 am
  - Re: My Head is a Mess - Patience 7/6/2007, 12:55 pm
    - Re: My Head is a Mess - Sophia 7/14/2007, 7:47 am
      - Re: My Head is a Mess - Patience 7/16/2007, 9:58 am
marriage - Brenda 6/27/2007, 9:14 am
- Re: marriage - Lily 6/30/2007, 11:38 am
  - Re: marriage - Brenda 6/30/2007, 2:19 pm
    - Re: marriage - Lily 7/1/2007, 12:38 pm
- Re: marriage - Joy 6/27/2007, 11:28 am
- Re: marriage - Sophia 6/27/2007, 9:33 am
  - Re: marriage - Brenda 6/27/2007, 11:10 am
    - Re: marriage - JohnnyB 6/28/2007, 6:13 am
      - Re: marriage - John 6/28/2007, 8:51 am
        
        Re: marriage - JohnnyB 6/28/2007, 9:18 pm
        
        Re: marriage - Kat 7/2/2007, 8:16 am
Still Fresh but Back Again - Will 6/21/2007, 3:54 pm
- Re: Still Fresh but Back Again - Johnnyb 6/23/2007, 12:33 pm
- Re: Still Fresh but Back Again - Will 6/22/2007, 12:19 am
  - Re: Rollercoaster - Joy 6/23/2007, 10:01 pm
- Re: Still Fresh but Back Again - Joy 6/21/2007, 8:47 pm
  - Re: The need to knnow - Joy 6/21/2007, 8:50 pm
    - Re: I don't know and why - Joy 6/21/2007, 9:08 pm
      - Re: I don't know and why - Joy 6/21/2007, 9:17 pm
20+years - losinghope 6/17/2007, 12:20 am
- Re: 20+years - Joy 6/17/2007, 12:47 pm
  - Re: 20+years - Joy 6/17/2007, 4:50 pm
Still Fresh from the affair - Will 6/16/2007, 1:21 am
- Re: Still Fresh from the affair - JohnnyB 6/23/2007, 12:27 pm
- Re: Still Fresh from the affair - Lily 6/22/2007, 10:55 am
- Re: Still Fresh from the affair - sophia 6/16/2007, 2:10 pm
20+ years - losinghope 6/9/2007, 11:54 am
- Re: 20+ years - rachel 6/16/2007, 6:46 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Will 6/16/2007, 12:55 am
- Re: 20+ years - JohnnyB 6/11/2007, 10:13 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Sophia 6/10/2007, 2:20 pm
20+ years - losinghope 6/7/2007, 3:30 pm
- Re: 20+ years - JohnnyB 6/11/2007, 10:06 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Sophia 6/8/2007, 3:54 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Lily 6/8/2007, 11:17 am
20+ years - Losinghope 6/5/2007, 12:33 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Lily 6/6/2007, 9:53 am
- I need help - gabby 6/6/2007, 12:37 am
  - Re: I need help - Lily 6/6/2007, 9:49 am
    - Re: I need help - gabby 6/6/2007, 11:20 am
  - Re: I need help - Sophia 6/6/2007, 6:30 am
- Re: 20+ years - Sophia 6/5/2007, 7:05 pm
- Re: 20+ years - Joy 6/5/2007, 7:05 pm
Mine is almost over.... - Patience 5/25/2007, 1:49 pm
- Re: Mine is almost over.... - Lily 5/27/2007, 11:19 am
- Re: Mine is almost over.... - Joy 5/26/2007, 12:38 pm
  - Re: Mine is almost over.... - Patience 5/31/2007, 10:55 am
Wife had an affair while I am deployed - IURO 5/25/2007, 11:51 am
- Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - Sophia 6/2/2007, 9:37 am
- Thanks - IURO 5/31/2007, 10:32 am
  - Re: Thanks - Joy 5/31/2007, 5:39 pm
- Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - Lily 5/27/2007, 11:27 am
  - Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - IURO 5/29/2007, 10:09 am
    - Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - Joy 5/30/2007, 7:48 pm
    - Anger - Lily 5/30/2007, 10:49 am
    - Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - gaby 5/29/2007, 11:22 pm
- Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - Joy 5/26/2007, 12:24 pm
- Re: Wife had an affair while I am deployed - LG 5/25/2007, 3:27 pm
6 years later - TnBuckeye 5/23/2007, 12:27 pm
- Re: 6 years later - Sophia 5/24/2007, 8:43 am
- Re: 6 years later - Joy 5/23/2007, 5:53 pm
  - Re: 6 years later - louise 7/19/2007, 9:22 pm
  - This Board - As It Once Was - David 5/25/2007, 7:43 am
JohnnyB help - Kelly 4/3/2007, 10:35 pm
- Re: JohnnyB help - JohnnyB 4/9/2007, 11:24 am
Marriage - And What It Does To A Relationship - Stan 3/26/2007, 1:44 am
- Re: Marriage - And What It Does To A Relationship - Lily 3/26/2007, 10:19 am
  - Re: Marriage - And What It Does To A Relationship - sill 1/8/2008, 12:02 pm
My Head is a Mess - Patience 3/22/2007, 12:20 pm
- Re: My Head is a Mess - Lily 3/23/2007, 12:08 pm
  - Re: My Head is a Mess - Patience 3/23/2007, 1:13 pm
- Re: My Head is a Mess - sophia 3/22/2007, 8:16 pm
  - Re: My Head is a Mess - jd 5/15/2007, 1:39 am
    - Re: My Head is a Mess - jd 5/15/2007, 1:44 am
  - Re: My Head is a Mess - Patience 3/23/2007, 8:19 am
Back to say Hi - grace 3/7/2007, 6:06 pm
- Re: Back to say Hi - jd 3/17/2007, 10:47 pm
  - JD!! - grace 3/19/2007, 8:52 pm
- Re: Back to say Hi - Sophia 3/9/2007, 12:45 pm
  - Re: Back to say Hi - grace 3/17/2007, 12:35 am
- Re: Back to say Hi - Lily 3/9/2007, 10:35 am
  - Re: Back to say Hi - grace 3/17/2007, 12:38 am
Knowing When A Marriage Is Over - Stan 3/3/2007, 4:33 am
- Re: Knowing When A Marriage Is Over - grace 3/3/2007, 6:33 pm
  - Grace - Self Respect, Very Important - Stan 3/4/2007, 12:15 pm
    - Re: Grace - Self Respect, Very Important - grace 3/6/2007, 6:31 pm
      - Doing Many Things Right - Stan 3/7/2007, 3:38 pm
Your Thoughts Would Be Appreciated - Stan 2/23/2007, 8:06 am
- Re: Your Thoughts Would Be Appreciated - Lily 2/24/2007, 11:20 am
  - Lily - What a Great Idea ! - Stan 2/24/2007, 3:35 pm
    - So... - Stain 3/1/2007, 10:30 am
Thank you Lily and Joy - Sarah 2/21/2007, 4:25 pm
- Re: Thank you Lily and Joy - Sarah 2/21/2007, 4:32 pm
  - Re: Thank you Lily and Joy - Lily 2/22/2007, 11:03 am
    - Re: Thank you Lily and Joy - Sarah 2/23/2007, 10:06 am
      - Re: Thank you Lily and Joy - Joy 2/23/2007, 6:31 pm
I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Sarah 2/20/2007, 5:17 pm
- Re: I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Joy 2/20/2007, 11:15 pm
  - Re: I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Sarah 2/21/2007, 1:56 am
- Re: I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Lily 2/20/2007, 6:36 pm
  - Re: I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Sarah 2/21/2007, 2:09 am
    - Re: I don't know how to help best. Need advise!! - Lily 2/21/2007, 10:34 am
another hit - Abby 2/18/2007, 10:14 am
- Re: another hit - Gabby 2/20/2007, 12:30 pm
- Re: another hit - Lily 2/19/2007, 10:34 am
- Re: another hit - Sophia 2/18/2007, 12:01 pm
Should his wife know? - Dazed 2/17/2007, 2:32 pm
- Re: Should his wife know? - TnBuckeye 5/23/2007, 12:59 pm
- Re: Should his wife know? - Lily 2/19/2007, 10:31 am
- Wouldn't you want to know? - Sophia 2/18/2007, 11:56 am
  - Re: Wouldn't you want to know? - Dazed 2/18/2007, 12:16 pm
- Re: Should his wife know? - Abby 2/17/2007, 9:00 pm
  - Re: Should his wife know? - Dazed 2/18/2007, 12:23 pm
    - Re: Should his wife know? - Bob 5/8/2007, 12:44 pm
Is It Time To Leave ? - Stan 2/17/2007, 2:06 am
- Re: Is It Time To Leave ? - gwen 2/19/2007, 10:12 am
  - Gwen - Stan 2/20/2007, 10:13 am
- Re: Is It Time To Leave ? - Joy 2/18/2007, 4:43 pm
  - Thank You Joy - Stan 2/19/2007, 7:20 am
- Re: Is It Time To Leave ? - Sophia 2/18/2007, 11:51 am
  - Thank you Sophia - Stan 2/19/2007, 7:29 am
    - Janis Spring was our therapist - Sophia 2/19/2007, 8:37 am
- Re: Is It Time To Leave ? - Lily 2/17/2007, 10:58 am
  - Lily - Thank You - Stan 2/17/2007, 11:25 pm
Show I leave or Should I stay? - Gwen 2/14/2007, 12:43 pm
- Re: Show I leave or Should I stay? - Lily 2/14/2007, 2:50 pm
  - Re: Show I leave or Should I stay? - gwen 2/15/2007, 8:52 am
    - Re: Show I leave or Should I stay? - Lily 2/16/2007, 10:47 am
    - Re: Show I leave or Should I stay? - Stain 2/16/2007, 10:13 am

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