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Posted by sweetie I helped while i was going out with him tried to support him much as possible. Did alot of practical stuff for him. Even went around with him to his ex girlfriends house when she was not there to collect staff. Use to always talk about her that he miss her and still feels for her. He told me that he liked me and that i was too much involved in my family that i need to put my mum in a home and my daughter to let her leave home. I said i could not do that as they are my family. He never use to let me leave my mobile phone on while i was with him. Or phone my daughter and had said to me if he finds out that his number had been given to my family he would finish the relationship as he is a private person. I had broken up with couple of times as he was making me a slave doing his typing and other work. I took it first as i was desperate to be loved and he was a bit like me scared of been abandon. We did do nice things together and had a good sexual relationship as well. I am not working he wanted me to go to work and earn money he was a rich man himself. Since I suffer with depression i cannot work at the moment i thought he would understand. I am so hurt the way he end the relationship after what i had done for him. I was suspose to go to Scotland for a couple of days with him. I asked for the name of the hotel that i was suspose to stay with him did not give it to me. I wanted to give it to my family in just incase of emergency. I said I will keep my mobile phone on while on holiday incase there is an emergiency my daughter wanted to contact me. He said I could not and had to have it on silent and switch of. Then he started saying if the phone rings while he is around he would throw away. He told me that if me and him do not get on holiday he would move into another hotel. Also that he frighten that I might struggle him, i said i was worried that he might struggle me. He was on sleeping tablets and had made an excuse or whether genuinely he could not sleep in a double bed with some one else. Found it difficult. I was getting bit scared of going with him think that he would abandon me out in Scotland or we would not get on. That i need my mobile phone on, as safety measure. The night before we where to go i got my daughter to phone him, She left a voice message and asked him if he would allow me to leave my mobile on. As she was worried and that she would not continuesly phone. I never gave her the telephone as i dialed it on the mobile using the phonebook where it had his name. I also left a voice message saying that i need my phone on and that he phones his ex girlfriend and it not fair/ Before an hour i was suspose to go he phoned and said the relationship is finshed as i gave his number to my daughter and that he is a private person. I have invaded his privacy. That is the end. I am feeling guilty and keep thinking its my fault for giving the phone to my daughter. As before my daughter was saying she was worried about me going as she does not know who is was as she had never met him. Also i may sound silly but i keep blaming her too. I started caring for this man and now find it very painful to part. I am so depressed that I feel life is not worth living. All I want is to be loved by a man truly. Can any one please help and let me know if its my mistake or not and not say anything to please me but sincerely is it my fault or not. my heart is broken. I had know him for 6 months but it was very intense. Use of CureZone is subject to the following Terms of Service Attributes associated with this message: #26042 will be notified if you reply to this message!
on 7/5/2004, 5:48 pm, in reply to "I think I was abused???"
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single parent with daughter aged 19, met same age man aged 39. Man had no children but previously in a relationship and not quite ended it with his ex girlfriend had an affair with someone and went of with them. when he met me need to collect his staff from her house. He suffered with mental health problems did not like been on his own and I suffer with depression and anxiety. I thought he would understand me as he was hurt and we would get on but my heart is broken as the friendship has ended.
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