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Posted by blondiegirl on 8/3/2003, 9:57 am, in reply to "Too good to be true" I am a social worker also and I think we put other people's needs far above our own. We worry about his job, his feelings, his life and completely neglect our own. If you think you are in danger try to convince yourself to get the order. If not for yourself than for your daughter. If you are like me facing him in court is terrifying. My husband tries to play me when he drags me into court. He tries to look sad and lost and beaten when in reality he is the one forcing me into court in the first place because he is unwilling to negotiate anything through the lawyers. I am also scared he is angry at me. What I can't fathom is why I am not furious at him. I was a good wife and mother. He forced me into leaving. He even told me he wished we were never married and did not have the kids. He was mean, abusive, selfish, and controlling. Why can't I be angry instead of being sad and devestated. He does not care if I am angry. Why should I care about him? This is the insanity of all this. Sorry for rambling. LOVE blondiegirl
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I understand your fear about a protection order. The only good thing is that if he continues to harrass you even if the court does not give you the order this time it will be on record if he continues to bother you.
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