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Posted by Annie
on 7/30/2003, 1:34 pm, in reply to "sad"
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I feel your pain! However, if I know you right now (as I to have been through this) your probably at the point that you don't feel anything anymore. I had a lot of GREAT frieds and family that stood by and let me hurt. Yes, it was the best thing they did. It made me see it for myself and it was the best thing they could have done for me. They were there when I needed them. I knew they didn't like him but with them standing beside me, it made me hear myself.
You need to ask yourself what someone asked me, "Can you live everyday, for the rest of your life, feeling like this?" Just imagine feeling this way forever. I couldn't and that's why I left. When I left I felt NOTHING! He begged me for 2 years and finally moved on to the next one. Meanwhile I did not look at my future, I looked at today. Until you are safe and over him, just live one day at time.
However, you won't leave until your ready. Money is not a problem. When you are ready to leave you will find a way. Please, I am not downing on you I just know how it feels and what it takes to leave. Unfortunatly I never left until there was nothing left in me to give. There is help out there and people who care, you just have to want it. Feel free to email me if you'd like. I have been out of this for almost 7 years (we were together for 8, never married) We have a child together so I still have to see him, but we are friendly to each other and we have both moved on. Now it's a good thing. We look at each other and feel nothing but friendship but it took us a long time to get here. Good Luck to you!
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