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Posted by Leah on 7/28/2003, 6:47 pm
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Hello, I am writing this message for some help or advice from some of u. I am 20 yrs old and find myself in a really hard spot. I was in a relatioship with someone for a year who I love with all my heart. I lost my virginity with in this yr and lost a Father with in this yr when I was with him. To make it short we have been through so much together. Yes, he had problems with his anger and was abusive and I know it was wrong and he did too and that caused soooooooooooooooooo many problems between me and him and both families. Of course that made it immposible for us together. We tryed everything but both families were involved at all times. His Mother is an inabler she does not belive her son has a problem. I was the cause of all his problems. I know that he truley loved me. He has some mental problems that need to be dealt with that no one will address. To make a long story short there are restraining orders on both sides and we both have in the past broke them many times to be with each other. But we both backed off cause we were going in circles. I know that he loves me and I know that I love him . I am currently in college and working on my degree which I will be done in 2yrs. He is working and his Father just passed away a yr apart from my Father and I couldn't be there for him and that hurt soo much. Cause he was there for me. I know that if only both of us could get help we could be together again. But I know that there are these restraing orders that both last for two yrs and alot of baggage and famlies that hate one anther. I feel that if we could stay away and get help within those two yrs and still love eachother . What would someone suggest that is in my postion. Just think if this was someone that u truley loved with all your heart and soul is it worth it to wait two yrs??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
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