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Posted by Lyn on 7/24/2003, 5:03 pm
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I don't have time to read through all of the posts, but it sure is nice to know you aren't alone. After 10 years of marriage (15 years with dating) and 6 kids later, I am getting out. He was physical for a year, but for the past 9 it has been more emotional and mental. It wasn't until I had 2 months away that I was able to take a look at the relationship from the outside and see it for what it really was. He's Dr. Jekyll attitude always made me feel guilty for even thinking of leaving, how could I be crazy enough to leave someone who loved me so much? But it's time to grow up. At first I acted out and had an affair...mistake. You should never turn to one man when in trouble with another, you can't see straight. Recently my spouse who loves and respects me so much put a picture he took of me getting dressed (a joke) on an adult website and confessed after he was caught at work. Respect and love go together and if your spouse doesn't do that then you don't have a relationship. I am getting out within a month. I will remove all the guns from the house, and change locks. I do not believe that I should be the one to leave the children's home for his mistakes!!!! So after reading this, and you take a deep breath, stand your ground and stay strong, it can be done!!!
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