Your 100% correct I should control my temper better. We all should, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. If I do something that the umps feels breaks the code of conduct, then they have to do their job.
I have a ton of respect for the umps, and never try to show them up. They make mistakes the same way players do, and maybe sometimes we dont agree on the calls, but off the field I consider them friends.
Maybe like the guy in the above post said. Maybe I need a wake up call, feel free to give it to me.