One of my own sons played club soccer and we invested thousands of $$$ in it; however, he missed any game that conflicted with school events. School comes first always.
Your particular band member and his family may decide that club activities are more important and leave band. Too bad this is happening right at contest time.
: a student telling you that he has to miss this
: week's game and pre-UIL contest because of
: league baseball (not school affiliated? This
: student is very vital to the groups
: performance on both days. Any ideas would
: be appreciated.