After several years on this board, and frequently reading about a certain "Fiddler" worker, today I looked up the term. I have never heard of it used in the USA. So, for anyone else who has been in the dark as have I, here is the definition.
Magpie, I know you have been literally been through Hell and back, and I am sorry. I am glad, however, you now know the true Jesus and the true Gospel and you are involved in a good church. God has blessed you despite your horrific upbringing. I have been through some horrors myself, but none as deep as you. May you find more peace each day!
That wretched "brother worker" was apparently known to be so in the world, but not to those among whom he lived and abused? ? ? ? ?
noun [ C ] uk /ˈkɪd.i ˌfɪd.lər/ us /ˈkɪd.i ˌfɪd.lɚ/ slang
someone who is sexually interested in children
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