Posted by mindy on 3/24/2008, 10:05 am, in reply to "trach tube and feeding tube is gone (thank God), but my daughter's holes are still opened"
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After reading some of the other posts...I wanted to add too that we were at an awesome children's hospital at the time in TX, staff was very experienced with PRS children...my son's dr. never mentioned complications about closing the hole at any time...if the hole were to close on its own...I would think a month's time would be plenty for it to naturally close...that is why I think when I called about concern for my son's hole not closing after 2 months, it was time to schedule surgery....maybe finding a pediatric ENT would be better for a 2nd opinion...
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: Good Afternoon everyone, I am new to this
: organization, but find it so helpful. I
: wish I knew about this long ago, when my
: daughter and I were really going through it.
: Anyway, thanks for the opportunity to
: share. My daughter had her trache tube, and
: feeding tube removed for approximately two
: years now and the holes are still opened.
: When they removed the trach tube, I know
: they gave us specific instructions regarding
: covering the hole when speaking, or
: coughing, etc., but no matter how much I
: keep reminding my daughter to do so, she
: just ignores me, and it is frustrating me so
: much. We are constantly using bandaids (I
: swear we are probably the hugest financial
: supporters of the bandaid company), and
: whenever she forgets to put them on (which
: is daily), mucus is still protruding through
: the hole. We went to the ENT a couple
: months ago, and they said not to worry about
: it because if they surgically close it up,
: there is a chance that air can create like a
: pocket where the hole was and more
: complications, such as putting back the
: trache tube can arise. We have come such a
: long way, but I keep telling Diamond (my
: daughter), that now she has to do her part.
: I guess she has been used to approximately 7
: years of nurses & mommy basically doing
: everything for her that she got lazy. Can
: anyone give me some advice? Its frustrating
: and at times I feel sad/sorry for her
: because she told me a few months ago, that
: some of the kids in her school sometimes
: call her "holey neck." I know how
: cruel kids can be, and I keep trying to
: reinforce to her that she has to cover her
: neck when she talks and etc. I even bought
: her cute little pocketbooks, mirrors, wipes,
: cute little cartoon bandaids, but she pays
: it no mind. Please help, I am literally
: going crazy.
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