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I do I help my younger sis understand?

Posted by unknown on December 16, 2006, 7:31 pm

I have CP. I have more to deal with than CP. My sister was adopted by other family members. We all lived in different places. For a long time she wasn't allowed to see her biological parents. It wasn't right. However, now she is 15. She has some contact with both parents. She needs that. With that said our mom she very good at playing with people's heads. Her father drinks too much. All they have is tell her something, and she believes it. I don't think she is ready to spend time alone with either parent. I don't think the whole family should stay mad at my mom. It won't change or fix things. However, I don't think my mom should put ideas in my sister's head. She believes anything her drunk dad tells her. My sister is a year older than I was when I protected her from her dad. After talking with her, I can clearly see she doesn't know the difference between what she wants and what she needs. I understand why she is angry. Everyone in my family stays angry. Yes they all make everyone else take the blame. Each one is too blame in their own way. No one takes responsability for their part. All she understands is .. It's unfair. At 21 I still can't make sense of it all. I don't think she should be cut off from her family. That leaves whole's in hearts. I certainly don't think she knows everything she thinks she does. I do I help her understand? She is not ready.

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