Posted by Luminous Soul on September 18, 2009, 12:00 pm, in reply to "A Minor Boohoo"
cleaning is co-dependency and probably stems from the guilt you carry that you should just let go of. That or you are really just an amazingly sweet person with time on her hands. You know, I can see how it would bring you down that notch, but I would appreciate her honestly and know that she is in her process of acceptance of you guys too. Happy Birthday to your gal!
--Previous Message-- : I've been on an upswing from the crazies and : been happy to be happy lately, then this: : My sister has been incredibly supportive. : She consistently argues on my behalf to our : mom. My mom is great with me, but shares : her concerns with my sister. : Anyway, GF and I and some friends are : celebrating GF's birthday on Saturday. I : invited my sis. She said, "No thank : you, I'm not ready to be around you guys : yet." She was very sweet and polite : about it. It hurts nonetheless. : I know it's a small thing, considering I : have much to be thankful for. It just : brought me down a notch. : : Now on to baking cakes for GF and cleaning : the kids' house in preparation for my (ex) : father-in-law's arrival around lunch time. : (Don't ask why I'm cleaning - some kind of : apology, I don't know.) Crazy lives we : live! : : Thanks for listening. : -amyruby :