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    Re: 4EverMyGiant from page two

    Posted by Click on June 13, 2008, 4:52 pm, in reply to "Re: 4EverMyGiant from page two"

    How did you know she had the same strong feelings? Is it a professional reputation that you are protecting? Did you have some sort of professional relationship with her? I'm figuring maybe you mean the wrong place was in an office. Yes, that could be a bit rough on the reputation! LOL! Wise of you not to do that there. Was this also a social relationship - did you see her outside of business?

    How long has it been since you "pushed her away"? Does that mean you haven't seen her at all, or just that you see her but act coldly? I'm just wondering what the "sense" is that makes you think she is moving on - that's why I was wondering if you actually have contact with her. Are you witnessing changes in her behavior, or is it that you are just assuming she's moving on but have no contact.

    Do you even know for sure that she is angry? How did you go about severing the relationship?

    I don't mean to be rude - but I've got to say this bluntly... You say, "time will tell". The only thing time will tell is that if you don't get up and make your move, NOTHING will happen! Not going after her will for certain result in you not having her. If she is your bliss, follow your bliss! You say you know there were sparks between you. Don't walk away from that! How often does that come along? Forget fear! Fear makes us WEAK! Empower yourself and create your own happiness! Linger in that hug and look her in the eyes, and when they've locked - you will know the moment - either kiss her, tell her you want to kiss her, or if you can really muster up a set, tell her you want to make love to her!

    Oh, how I'd love to be there to witness your joy in this moment! How amazing you will feel when you feel the power in taking action!


    --Previous Message--
    : No I wasn't afraid with "my girl" As
    : you said, I was a coward. She never knew
    : how deeply I felt about her and when I knew
    : she had the same strong feelings and desires
    : I hit the panic button. I can blame my age
    : or my concern about my reputation or my fear
    : she will remain with her H for my actions,
    : but it was the fear. I know that now. I
    : have considered the thoughts of how to
    : approach her or bring up the subject of just
    : letting a tight hug linger and then kiss as
    : I had wanted to so many times. It was always
    : either the wrong time and most certainly at
    : the wrong place. I am sitting on my fence
    : and wonder if she will be open to hearing
    : from me or whether she is still emotionally
    : angry with me for turning her away. I also
    : have a sense she is moving on. I only wish
    : her to be happy. Time will tell.
    :
    : --Previous Message--
    : Please don't feel the need to censor
    : anything
    : you want to ask me. Like I said, if you want
    : to email me if you're not comfortable on the
    : board with it, I'd be happy to keep the
    : discussion private. I'm an open book.
    : There's no question that is inappropriate.
    : And if I possibly thought it was, I would
    : politely decline to answer. Maybe you were
    : afraid with your girl, but there's no need
    : to ever be afraid with me. Now, BTW, you've
    : got me extremely curious, so the email addy
    : is particularly appropriate! LOL! Please do
    : email me. 4curiousonly@gmail.com
    :
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    :
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