Looking for advice for those that have been or are separated from their spouses...I'm going to talk with my H about it tonight. We talked a little about this a couple of nights ago--he was more inclined towards divorce--he doesn't want to wait around to be hurt again...I really think separation is the way to go. We're talking again tonight and I've started looking at rentals. I guess I'm wondering a couple of things: What approach did you take? did you set a timeline? If you have children: how did you approach custody....and if you have young children (mine is 4 and a half), how did you tell them? Thanks!