Posted by Roxanne on November 7, 2009, 1:46 pm, in reply to "dis-connected..."
god, I HATE weekends! But I know what you are talking about... the connection. I totally get that, and when I feel it is off, it upsets me. And we work together to feel it again. Mostly the connection gets off if one of us is upset about something. Talking a lot, gets it back on track, spending alone time together to process everything is very helpful. Just because its gone this moment doesn't mean it isn't there.
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: so last week, GF and i had a really good week.
: we spent 2 days together, just us. we talked
: on the phone alot. and it was wonderful. the
: "connection" was there. i felt
: more in love with her than ever. this week
: has been rough. she has been working alot
: and when that happens we seem to disconnect.
: i guess its almost a feeling of
: "neglect". i cant quite explain
: it. does anyone else have this almost
: "psychic" connection mentally with
: their GF's? and when it feels like it gets
: broken, is there a terrible feeling of loss?
: i mean, i understand, she is working and
: very busy, and that happens to me too, but i
: cant help but feel very depressed by it. i
: wish i could explain better.
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