Posted by Grateful on November 7, 2009, 8:37 am, in reply to "Do you ever feel like you've been thrown out of the closet..."
And to my children and my mom, by my H at the time. It was an awful, hateful and cruel thing to do and it caused and still causes alot of pain and harm to my children and my gf's children.
The one thing I regret is trusting my H to put our children's needs over his need to feel morally superior and right.
All I can say is that it is better to take the offensive and do it yourself than allow others to have that kind of power over you.
It is frustrating to not be in control over something so personal and important. I am sorry this has happened to you. Hopefully, you can take that power back now as you go forward.
--Previous Message--
: Instead of coming out on your own terms,
: you're almost pushed out? Without
: permission? Without consent? That's what
: I'm feeling like right now.
: I'm grateful for the weight being off of my
: shoulders, but dreading the next person to
: just find out, only because it's the newest
: big gossip story in the small freakin town.
: It's frustrating.
: My mom knows by the way. I'll save that for
: another post. Right now, I'm just venting
: about being tossed out of the closet on my
: a$$.
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