Posted by ILove on November 7, 2009, 6:33 am, in reply to "Do you ever feel like you've been thrown out of the closet..."
I was outted, not by my own accord. At the time I thought I was a gonna die...not because of the fact I was sleeping with a woman, but because I was lying to people around me. That bothered me.
I got thru it, and have become better friends with those that know. The ones that rejected me are just better enemies 
. The "outter" actually did me a favor, although it was done with complete malice. I'm glad it's over, and will go forth in honesty only. Hey...you play, you pay. Live clean. And if you don't want to tell someone something, it's your perrogative. It's no one's freaking business what you do.
What hurt me most is that it was done by someone I loved best. I'm so glad it's over. And behind me. Occasionally my friends will make jokes about it now..and it makes me laugh. But I would not wish the process on anyone.
