Posted by greenlilly on November 6, 2009, 11:54 pm, in reply to "Re: vulnerable confession"
yes it is an adaptation, and control has been mentioned a time or two in therapy.
It makes sense really. It also explains my resentment towards the men I've chosen, and why I've chosen them in the first place.
I didn't get the last line of your message. What do you mean? I'm interested!
thank you,
GL
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: I recall a thread a while ago where a number
: of people talked about pretty much the same
: sort of thing, so I doubt you're alone in
: this.
:
: I'm inclined to think that it's possibly an
: adaptation to a situation that you don't
: really want to be in. And perhaps the
: adaptation is one that allows you to take a
: lot of control?
:
: Lots of adaptations are a bit sticky to
: shake off once you no longer need them,
: because the situation might not still be
: there.
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