Posted by Roxanne on November 6, 2009, 10:12 pm, in reply to "Do you ever feel like you've been thrown out of the closet..."
My H outed me to his parents, which then in turn outed me to the rest of his family. It wasn't supposed to go that way. He was supposed to just tell them we were getting a Divorce but they kinda guessed and he didn't disagree.
Its fine I guess, but i'm not happy it wasn't on my terms. The emails with them after went back an forth for awhile, although they seemed supportive, they are still bigots.
I'm sorry you got outed, its not a great feeling when its not on your own terms.
--Previous Message--
: Instead of coming out on your own terms,
: you're almost pushed out? Without
: permission? Without consent? That's what
: I'm feeling like right now.
: I'm grateful for the weight being off of my
: shoulders, but dreading the next person to
: just find out, only because it's the newest
: big gossip story in the small freakin town.
: It's frustrating.
: My mom knows by the way. I'll save that for
: another post. Right now, I'm just venting
: about being tossed out of the closet on my
: a$$.
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