Posted by ML24 on November 6, 2009, 5:43 pm, in reply to "ML24"
We've been together one year this month! I absolutely adore her. My husband doesn't know about the GF (our relationship) but he does know her since she is my daughter's coach. She is an open LLL and the community knows she and her partner split but they don't know why. She is extremely patient with the situation. I'm the one that is probably more uneasy....I want to split with my H now, but MORE want to / need to wait until my youngest graduates. I agree, it is a difficult road, but we too have committed to this road together. My GF probably won't be coaching too many more years (1, or 2, maybe 3??) but we still need to wait until after 2011!! We've made it one year which is amazing to me (not that we've made it, just that it's already been one year). It too am so glad to have found someone in our situation. It DOES help tremendously. Thanks so much, Happily Ever After, and please keep in touch or send updates now and then.
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: Thanks ML24. How long have you 2 been
: together? Does your husband know about your
: GF? Is your GF patient with the situation
: or is she in a lot of pain? It is a very
: difficult road, but one we have committed to
: together. She adores the kids and of course
: would like to keep coaching in the future,
: so we keep plugging along. I'm glad to have
: someone on here that can relate to that.
: Very helpful. Will be thinking of you and
: all you are going through!
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: Happily Ever After,
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: I am married and have 2 children, 1 in
: college, 1 junior in HS who plays
: volleyball. My SGF is her coach. SGF was
: with her partner for 17 years before
: splitting up this summer. Final moving out
: day is today. My plan is to wait until my
: HS junior is out of HS and on to
: college.....worried about the impact and the
: scandal as well. We are just trying to get
: through her break up and move right now! I
: am hopeful that we can make it through the
: next 20-24 months especially since I am
: still attached and she is not.
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: I posted yesterday our circumstances. I
: have 3 children. One is in college and one
: is a senior. My GF has coached them both in
: high school soccer including this season
: that just ended. They are all very close,
: because they have known her as my best
: friend for 7 years. She and I decided for
: E's senior year, we should wait it out, so
: she doesn't associate pain from the D and
: her senior year. Also, my GF wants to
: continue to coach and worried about the
: impact on my girls...didn't want a scandal.
: We live in the Bible belt as they say and
: wanted to plan a way to make it as painless
: as possible for them. In the process, it
: has caused us terrible pain. We are just
: trying to make it 7 more months. I took the
: leap and told my husband. He is furious but
: a great father. He will help to keep things
: as smoothe also but want's E to graduate. I
: have a 10 year old son. He adores my GF, if
: we can just make it a little further. Just
: want to know if there are other couples like
: us..with the same struggles.
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: Since you are married and she is not, may I
: ask what it is that you are waiting for?
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