Posted by Virago on November 5, 2009, 1:32 pm, in reply to "please be patient with me, i know i've asked about this before"
I don't know how applicable anything I say is. I think that there are BIG cultural differences between NZ and US in how straight and feminine women present. Outside our city areas, most straight women present easily as butch as your average US butch woman.
Here, most of what you have described, and the photos would describe a pretty average (bloody good looking) androgynous lesbian here.
More telling, butch-wise, is that you seem to be leaning toward identifying as butch.
Contrary to some discussions here, there is no rule-book here that wasn't made to be broken. Some butches have a strong preference for very femme-y women, and that is the caricature. But some don't. Some (that would be me) prefer butch women.
And I do believe that they'd all be climbing over each other.



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