Posted by ML24 on November 5, 2009, 9:29 am, in reply to "Re: waiting"
Happily Ever After,
I am married and have 2 children, 1 in college, 1 junior in HS who plays volleyball. My SGF is her coach. SGF was with her partner for 17 years before splitting up this summer. Final moving out day is today. My plan is to wait until my HS junior is out of HS and on to college.....worried about the impact and the scandal as well. We are just trying to get through her break up and move right now! I am hopeful that we can make it through the next 20-24 months especially since I am still attached and she is not.
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: I posted yesterday our circumstances. I
: have 3 children. One is in college and one
: is a senior. My GF has coached them both in
: high school soccer including this season
: that just ended. They are all very close,
: because they have known her as my best
: friend for 7 years. She and I decided for
: E's senior year, we should wait it out, so
: she doesn't associate pain from the D and
: her senior year. Also, my GF wants to
: continue to coach and worried about the
: impact on my girls...didn't want a scandal.
: We live in the Bible belt as they say and
: wanted to plan a way to make it as painless
: as possible for them. In the process, it
: has caused us terrible pain. We are just
: trying to make it 7 more months. I took the
: leap and told my husband. He is furious but
: a great father. He will help to keep things
: as smoothe also but want's E to graduate. I
: have a 10 year old son. He adores my GF, if
: we can just make it a little further. Just
: want to know if there are other couples like
: us..with the same struggles.
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: Since you are married and she is not, may I
: ask what it is that you are waiting for?
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