Posted by LC on November 4, 2009, 10:37 am, in reply to "Re: amyruby"
You wrote:
I thought I must sleep with my husband to put the marriage back together.
Want to talk about THAT part?
--Previous Message--
: Thank you for asking, LC.
:
: I'm so long-winded. The short answer is
: that it got better because I was sleeping in
: the house with the babies and taking care of
: daily life. But I still have much work to
: do on getting more sleep. I have to inch my
: way into making my own bedtime rituals.
:
: This was my long answer:
: Better because I slept in my babies' house
: Thursday through Monday night. Often I was
: in the room with them because they all had
: the flu and kept waking up in the middle of
: the night having difficulty breathing. So
: although I was waking up often, I was
: sleeping restfully.
:
: Also, Thursday afternoon I had a session
: with my T. Some days I feel like therapy is
: a waste of money because I repeat the same
: crap over and over again. On Thursday, it
: was worth every penny. For numerous reasons
: unrelated to my GF's and my actual
: relationship, I thought she and I were
: broken. I thought I must sleep with my
: husband to put the marriage back together.
: The T put all my emotions into perspective.
: That helped me get more sleep.
:
: I still have work to do on my sleep
: patterns. I'm working on taking care of the
: basics in my life. First, I'm getting stuff
: done (incredibly helpful) and secondly, the
: getting stuff done keeps my mind from
: spiraling out of control.
:
: Oh and I signed and sent off my divorce
: petition papers - no more immediate thorn in
: my side. I'll be divorced April 2010.
: Also, since GF's landlady won't allow babies
: to sleep at GF's house, I decided to spend
: more time in the babies' house. I made
: myself a better place to sleep in their
: house now. It feels good to have a few
: things settled, things that were keeping me
: up at night. Proper, permanent living
: arrangements will have to be worked on
: later. Right now, I have a plan I'm happy
: with until that time.
:
: Thanks again for asking.
:
: I think of you often, hoping you're doing
: okay.
:
: -amyruby
:
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