Posted by ccsgirl on November 4, 2009, 8:01 am, in reply to "Possibly very silly questions about gayness"
For me, and this may seem odd or not really explained right, it wasn't so much that the coming out process felt like the event of a lifetime, but more so that it just felt so right and so natural to be with my gf. She's the only person in my 39 years that I have totally connected with emotionally and sexually. Being with her every day, loving her with a depth that I've never experienced before, that for me was the event of my lifetime, realizing that love like this really did exist was my "aha" moment...the rest of it, the gay label, the coming out to people, etc. is so secondary to how I feel for her it's almost like that part for me doesn't matter too much.
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