Posted by piglet on November 4, 2009, 7:18 am, in reply to "Gayness"
So agree with Dancer here. My becoming 'gay' was the most natural, coming home, fitting into my skin moment. There have been no issues about my sexuality that have proved too hurtful or too dificult.
All my sadness and pain and hurt has been around dissolving a marriage and dealing with that fall out for my 3 children...thats the bit that causes the misery and anxiety...not the gay bit.
piglet xx
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: For me, it felt like the most completely
: natural and rightest thing in the whole wide
: world. Having been here for 3 years or so, I
: think that that's actually the case for lots
: of people here... So, I think the struggles
: are rarely around discovering one's real
: sexuality, but far more around how this will
: impact on the lives we've built thus far, in
: particular if there are children involved.
: And leading on from that, whether or not we
: feel we want to make the changes to lead an
: honest life.
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: ...I'm glad you posted because I was
: wondering
: about your post the other day...that you
: were in a rlx for a year before figuring out
: you were gay. If you are comfortable
: answering, can I ask what your thoughts or
: feelings were about your identity during
: that time? --Maybe you do not put a lot of
: stock in labels or maybe you just weren't
: sure or ?
: thx, Dolce
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