Posted by backwardstoad on November 3, 2009, 6:49 pm, in reply to "Possibly very silly questions about gayness"
This is the hardest thing I've done in my life, Dolce, next to leaving an abusive spouse years ago. This new information has forced me to question everything I thought I knew about myself. I hope you can "slip into this being gay thing" because it's like waking up on hot coals for me.
--Previous Message--
: For many here it seems that “coming out” is an
: event of a lifetime….it is a sigh, a relief,
: confirming. It is finding one’s authentic
: self and finally living truthfully after
: years of struggle.
:
: But I wonder, are there others of you who
: have morphed het to gay with much less
: fanfare. Has anyone found the change to
: being with a woman so natural that it is
: less like having crossed a shark-infested
: moat for the blue ribbon and more like
: changing lanes on a hwy in the middle of the
: desert? Now, I don’t mean in any way that
: there is a lack of excitement or love and
: happiness, only that it doesn’t feel either
: extremely weird-strange or like an “ah-ha I
: know myself now” moment, which if you’ve
: been het. all your life you think you might
: feel. Can one really slip into this being
: gay thing that easily..shouldn’t it be much
: more complicated…and if it’s this easy, can
: anyone do it or is this a supreme
: affirmation of gayness? Just wonder if
: everyone is capable of loving another woman
: if they just opened themselves up to it.
: What do straight women think about it?
: Ponder ponder.
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