Posted by Dolce on November 3, 2009, 4:46 pm
For many here it seems that “coming out” is an event of a lifetime….it is a sigh, a relief, confirming. It is finding one’s authentic self and finally living truthfully after years of struggle.
But I wonder, are there others of you who have morphed het to gay with much less fanfare. Has anyone found the change to being with a woman so natural that it is less like having crossed a shark-infested moat for the blue ribbon and more like changing lanes on a hwy in the middle of the desert? Now, I don’t mean in any way that there is a lack of excitement or love and happiness, only that it doesn’t feel either extremely weird-strange or like an “ah-ha I know myself now” moment, which if you’ve been het. all your life you think you might feel. Can one really slip into this being gay thing that easily..shouldn’t it be much more complicated…and if it’s this easy, can anyone do it or is this a supreme affirmation of gayness? Just wonder if everyone is capable of loving another woman if they just opened themselves up to it. What do straight women think about it? Ponder ponder.
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