Posted by MSG on November 3, 2009, 8:34 am, in reply to "Re: That is EXCELLENT news. "
Thanks gang---it went well. She is nice and I know he is happy. I would agree in the VERY beginning of this journey I may have felt similar--sort of sad or sick or something---but for me, it was more because I was jealous of the fact I felt like they could just be who they are without having to second guess themselves and I am not there yet. I am actually not jealous of their relationship. He is trying harder with her than he EVER did with me, but I think he realizes some of his own "issues" and is trying to make some changes, which is good. It's a long road---I have been on this road for more than 3 years now and I am JUST now seeing the light of day.
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: You are so lucky to be so clear. The idea of
: seeing my H. with a gf makes me sick - I
: truly wish I could find a way to feel
: differently. I think part of it is because
: I imagine them happy and loving with each
: other and the happy loving side of my H. was
: one I really loved to be with and I miss. I
: realize I'm being unrealistic because he is
: who he is and that is moody and needy and
: even if she doesn't see it yet, that's
: what's coming in a major way................
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: Like me. MSG, I'm glad you will be meeting
: her tonight.
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: Isn't it great to see him truly happy?! This
: is a message a couple of the women on the
: board need to read.
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