Posted by Rationaleyes on November 2, 2009, 7:43 pm, in reply to "Re: How Did You Meet Her? What Happened? "
Met my sgf on-line. It's been almost 1 year and a half since we met. I'm 37,married with 3 little ones. She's 27. A good friend of mine introduced me to an on-line gaming world.He's totally into that stuff and felt that I'd enjoy it. Up until this point, I'd been working but finally had to give up the career or take a really huge pay cut that just wouldn't justify me working while someone else watch my kids. I was going to use that time to finish my MA anyways.It was coincidental meeting her in this place. So much of this game touched on my love of reading fantasy scifi, I saw this as an extension to that sort of thing. We met 3 months into it. We began spending all of our time together at night,and somehow, over the course of our friendship, other feelings developed. Similar to some of your own stories, it was really evident to everyone including us that we were becoming close. We were falling in love and finally. she admitted to me that I made her "tingle" was how she put it. This was 7 months later. I know I held my breath everytime I saw her log on. That's when she finally told me she was only interested in girls. It didn't matter. I'd already fallen for her. Ours is a ldr, very emotional, very rocky. I find myself thinking about her each and everyday. I log on nightly, barely ever sleep. Very truly a long story.
On another note, I read these stories and I find so much feelings and emotions I can relate too. I'm still trying to figure out what I am, ykwim. Everything I feel for this woman feels so right. I can't ignore it even if I have never been with her.
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: How did you meet the woman you love? How
: did the relationship develop? Was she gay
: or straight (or both?) How long before you
: told her your feelings for her? How did she
: take it?
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: I met my GF in May 2008. We were on a 9 day
: residential course together. From the get-go
: we had an amazing connection, shared so many
: passions and thoughts about life, raising
: kids, food, faith, education - you name it -
: we shared it that week. At the end of the
: week i texted her during the last lecture to
: say that she had been such a beautiful gift
: of friendship to me and that I hoped it
: would continue when we got home. She lives
: about an hours drive away. That night when
: she left to go home I kissed her goodbye -
: on the lips - it surprised us both. She
: texted me from the train later that she felt
: a bit in love.
: We started a very intense emotional affair
: almost immediately. Both married, both
: straight (or so we thought) and both head
: over heels in love. The texting got very
: dirty very quickly and the next time we saw
: each other- two weeks later, we couldn't
: keep our hands off each other. I told my H,
: she didn't. It still took me a year to
: realise that I was gay!
: Fast forward to Nov 2009, we are still
: together, both separated from our Hs. See
: each other most weeks for one or two nights,
: and are more in love than ever. We dream of
: living together one day but there are so
: many obstacles including jobs, geography and
: the fact that she is finding it hard to come
: out to family and friends and introduce me
: as her partner.
: I love her more than I ever imagined was
: possible, and I want to spend the rest of my
: life with this woman. I feel happier with
: her than I have ever been in my entire life.
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