Posted by karen55 on November 2, 2009, 12:35 pm, in reply to "How Did You Meet Her? What Happened? "
Hi, here is my story.
I met my gf through my therapist. I went to her because I was having feelings for women. It was very innocent on her part. My gf had gone through the same thing I was going through. Was married for 15 years and then fell in love with a women. She then realized she is gay. She and that women broke up 3 years ago.
We talked on the phone and emailed for 4 days before we met. We already had feelings for each other before we met. There was an instant attraction when we did meet. Within a week of talking to her the first time, I was bawling my eyes out because of my feelings for her. I was a married woman with 4 kids, why was this happening to me.
We continued to see each other ( H new about it).
Fast forward....It all began Jan. 22 09. I told him in June that I am gay. I will be moving out Jan.1st. It has been a long hard road, but I am happy now and I think H is too. I love her very much and can't imagine my life without her.
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: Hey All -
: I'm pretty new here and I am really
: enjoying what people write. It blows me
: away. One of the things that interests me
: most is how this phenomenon of falling in
: love with a woman happened to you all. I'm
: still pretty disoriented and confused and
: fuzzy about the whole thing. But I'm
: interested, too. Intrigued. I would love
: to hear some stories about how you came to
: be on this website (which, I assume means
: that you are, or were, married to a man, and
: now are in love with a woman)
: How did you meet the woman you love? How
: did the relationship develop? Was she gay
: or straight (or both?) How long before you
: told her your feelings for her? How did she
: take it? I would love to hear some stories
: from people who are in the same phase of
: this process as I am... and I'd love even
: more to hear from some people who have made
: more "progress" than me, so to
: speak. I look forward to hearing some of
: your stories. I think it would really help.
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