Posted by mtngirl on October 31, 2009, 11:44 am, in reply to "my kids' last day..."
bj, there is no greater gift you can give your children than YOURSELF, just as you are.
Certainly there will be some difficult times ahead, but in the long run, they will thank you for being yourself, and being honest. Living a lie in front of your children teaches them to live a lie......so think of it this way: if one of your children were in your situation, what would you want for them? You are teaching them to be true to themselves.
Keep moving forward, and know that all the changes will be assimilated into their lives in time, and you will all be just fine.
--Previous Message--
: ... to look at me without thinking 'gay'
: ... to look at me without wondering how i
: could break up the family
: ... to look at me without wondering how i
: could do this to their dad
: ... to look at me without wondering how i
: could do this to them
: ... to think of themselves as kids of
: married parents
: ... to not be a member of the children of
: divorced parent club
: ... to be able to refer to me in
: conversations with friends without
: embarrassment
: ... to not worry about where they will live
: in the future
: ... to not feel like they're at the bottom
: of a canyon between two parents high up on
: either side
: ... of security
: ... of innocence
:
:
: these are my thoughts at this moment.
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: bj
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