Posted by Sasha1 on October 30, 2009, 1:12 pm, in reply to "Re: Husbands pain.........."
Take care of and be gentle with yourself.............
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: Sending hugs your way.
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: I posted on Monday morning that I had told
: my
: H (married 19 years, 2 great kids) that I
: had fallen in love with my friend and had an
: affair over the past year...........he was
: crushed and devasted, he has been kind and
: considerate this week....until last nite. He
: finally really hit the anger
: stage..............had the opportunity to
: lash out verbally, I understand he deserves
: this time to hurt. He left the house early
: this morning and I have not heard from
: him..............I keep remembering what you
: shared with me on Monday...........he
: deserves the right to feel his
: pain...........I felt so Blessed this week
: that he was able to function and act kindly
: towards me.......I tried not to take any of
: that for granted, for I knew this part was
: coming. No matter what we think we might be
: ready for, we are never ready til we are in
: it.........and now that Im in it, watching
: him hurt, feeling his anger, hearing his
: pain, ...........its like I can't breathe. I
: know that there will be growth and strength
: on the other side for both of us. Getting
: there is just the hard part. Thanks for
: letting me share..........peace to you all.
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