Posted by sailndive on October 30, 2009, 12:16 pm
I posted on Monday morning that I had told my H (married 19 years, 2 great kids) that I had fallen in love with my friend and had an affair over the past year...........he was crushed and devasted, he has been kind and considerate this week....until last nite. He finally really hit the anger stage..............had the opportunity to lash out verbally, I understand he deserves this time to hurt. He left the house early this morning and I have not heard from him..............I keep remembering what you shared with me on Monday...........he deserves the right to feel his pain...........I felt so Blessed this week that he was able to function and act kindly towards me.......I tried not to take any of that for granted, for I knew this part was coming. No matter what we think we might be ready for, we are never ready til we are in it.........and now that Im in it, watching him hurt, feeling his anger, hearing his pain, ...........its like I can't breathe. I know that there will be growth and strength on the other side for both of us. Getting there is just the hard part. Thanks for letting me share..........peace to you all.
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