Posted by stumped on October 30, 2009, 9:51 am, in reply to "Feeling Completely Broken"
First of all, your children will STILL be able to do all the things they have done all these years. Dance class will still happen with child support money from dad etc. Doesn't your H deserve true, honest, IN LOVE feelings for and from someone? If that can't be you and it doesn't look like it can be with how much you love S don't you think you should let him go find what you have found? It is normal to have the feelings you are having, totally normal, but ttm, you need to remember if you and S don't work out it is not the end of the world. You also need to remember that you should NOT be leaving for S you should be leaving because you are gay and you don't want to live a lie in a hetro marriage. Your kids will benefit from your truth and happiness and so will you and your Husband. Believe me it is not easy and it is heart wrenching but SO worth the pain and hard work it takes to get there.......you can do this ttm, you really can. We will help you.
Beck
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