Posted by Sasha1 on October 30, 2009, 9:22 am, in reply to "not to mention"
I agree. But I think there are people whose manner is to be aware of feelings in a way that some others don't seem to feel. THIS IS NOT A CRITICISM. I mean in factually. I think some people are very aware of other's feelings ( a little co-dependent perhaps!) and relate in a certain way. I think there are others who don't function with the same sensibility (again, not a criticism - perhaps this is a more "real" approach for all I know) and these 2 dif. types of people constantly run into trouble. The sensitive ones think the others are insensitive and others think the sensitive ones are not being real. I don't think anyone is intentionally hurting others, just following their nature. I realize this is a little convoluted but I hope you get what I'm trying to say!
--Previous Message--
: That if one posts asking for honest advice
:
: AND they get exactly what they ask
: for---honest advice.
:
: They can choose to ignore the advice, laugh
: it, or even feel disgusted by it. They
: don't even need to show gratitude for
: getting what they asked for.
:
: But for cryin' out loud, they should at
: least have the decency and manners to
: refrain from screaming at the person who
: gave them exactly what they asked
: for--honest advice.
:
: They certainly should not be demanding that
: people who give honest advice leave the
: board because their advice is too honest.
:
Message Thread:
« Back to thread