Posted by amyruby on October 29, 2009, 11:10 pm, in reply to "and"
and I missed the whole exchange.
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: The first few posts between ayzika and SIGO
: were enough for me to know that it didn't
: involve me. I had the choice to continue
: reading or understand that it might be too
: difficult to read. I had a choice, just
: like everyone here. We have choices, and as
: grown women we can chose to read and become
: vocal, or by-pass it because we know it's
: not our business. Just saying.
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: I have always loved your posts and you pop
: on
: here every once-in-awhile, and love to hear
: what your opinions are. I agree that the
: thread wasn't removed because it was
: challenging, it was definately removed for
: how personal it became.
:
: My POV on this, and I'm sure it doesn't
: matter, is that if this personal discussion
: between very intelligent and strong women is
: enough to scare women off from this site,
: they're going to have a hard time irl. I
: don't mean to be negative, sincerely, this
: is not an easy journey and a whole lot more
: will come that will truly SCARE the crapolla
: out of you. Trust me.
:
: I'm not saying everyone here needs to have
: such strong convictions and deliver them the
: way others do, heck when I came here I
: certainly didn't know up from down or left
: from right. I was a huge mess. I enjoy
: every opinion and when I see it turns
: personal, I leave it alone. Grown,
: intelligent women usually work through this
: on their own. I by-pass what isn't meant
: for me.
:
: With all of that being said, I do think some
: of this should be taken off board, but I
: also know that I have a CHOICE to read or
: not. I choose to disreguard when it doesn't
: involve me. I wish others would too. IRL
: not all people will be fond of everyone they
: come in contact with and neither in
: cyber-land, but each and every opinion and
: point is valid if that is how that person
: feels. Peace!
:
: Michie
:
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: I don't think the thread was removed because
: women were being challenged to think about
: things they didn't want to think about. That
: can be difficult to deal with, but is
: ultimately beneficial to those who accept
: the challenge and face their denial. I wish
: someone had asked me those hard questions
: when I was on my journey.
:
: I believe the thread was removed because of
: the nasty, personal name-calling attacks -
: which is NEVER beneficial to anyone here,
: and scares women away.
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: I could be off the mark...but I'm thinking
: that trying to make this board feel 'safe'
: for the few who probably won't feel safe on
: any online forum would involve
: underestimating the capacity of most of the
: people who read/post here.
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: What do you think?
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