Posted by glittergirl on October 27, 2009, 12:40 pm, in reply to "Re: My husband is talking to our pastor..."
that's amazing for him to realize that! My H happiness also completely depended on me and he is in therapy to learn to separate himself and be his own person. I know he is hurting a ton, but I think in the end, he will grow through this experience, too.
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: He is back and said it was a good meeting for
: him. That he realized that he can not hang
: all of his happiness on me and my feelings
: for him. He said he is going to try to love
: me the way that a husband should love his
: wife, according to Ephesians. That he feels
: that we have a decent friendship and that he
: hopes he can win my heart completely, but
: that he will understand if he can't. That my
: being a lesbian has nothing to do with
: anything that he can control.
:
: I am still sorting his meeting out in my
: head. Clearly, he wants me
: "fixed," but it seems like he is
: moving in a positive direction to deal with
: me not being "fixable."
:
: --Previous Message--
: ... right now. I am very nervous. I am
: afraid
: I will not be able to face this man at
: church tomorrow night. *sigh* The pastor
: wants my husband and I in for marriage
: counseling, but I am not wanting to do that
: at all. I would not mind counseling to try
: to keep peace as we work through everything,
: because my desire now is to seperate. I am
: afraid that if I met with our pastor,
: though, I would feel pressure to stay.
:
: I almost outed myself to a couple of moms at
: our homeschool co-op yesterday. I know the
: news would not have been well received and I
: would have been kicked out of the co-op.
: Everything is becoming more and more real,
: ya know?
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