Posted by Consumed on October 27, 2009, 11:47 am, in reply to "I HAVE BEEN VERY HURT AND BETRAYED BY MY PARENTS"
So sorry to hear your parents back-stabbed you like this. I totally expect it from the H though.
I was foolish and naive and believed that the ex-H was cool with the idea when we both would go our separate ways and see other people and he then turned around and hired a PI to catch my partner and I on video kissing.
As upsetting as it is to hear your parents betraying you, it isn't a shock to me as my mother remained in contact with my ex-H continuously for years after the H and I went our separate ways. They don't talk so much now that he's seriously dating/living with a woman from China but then I don't talk to her much anymore either so she's basically lost us both. She should have known that her relationship with my ex would die down after time. After all, he's the water-- I'm the blood. Whatever. Her loss. I hardly think of her. Out of sight, out of mind.
Parents should love their children unconditionally. I shutter at the thought of my precious beloved Cherub being born to my mother and not me. My Cherub probably wouldn't be with us by now if she were.
You probably will speak to your parents again, but the trust is gone, that's for sure. Your relationship will never be the same again as my mother's and mine won't be.
Hang in there, you've come a long way-- stand stong. We're here.
Consumed
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