Posted by mar on October 27, 2009, 10:39 am, in reply to "Re: my question for today- divorce/coming out to kids"
Hi Obsessed, sounds like your H is afraid of losing you. Let him think what he thinks, I find it's not worth it to get into it with people. Your kids will see you for the loving person you are, not as a person who solely identifies with her sexual orientation. Hang tough!
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: I worry about this too, because my husband
: does not want our kids to view homosexuality
: in a positive light at all, due to our
: denomination. I know that it will be an
: issue between us, but he has to learn that
: he cannot control what I say/do in front of
: the kids anymore than I can control what he
: says and does. I do not think that a mother
: should have to hide the fact that she is a
: lesbian, or hide who she is with.
:
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: my H and i are divorcing. He told me that
: he
: does not want my children exposed to any gay
: stuff. i.e. doesnt want kids to see me
: holding hands with a woman or kissing a
: woman. does not want them to know i am gay.
:
: i had been intending to come out to my
: children after the dust settled from the
: divorce.
: my h is worried because his religion
: condemns homosexuality; he doesnt want the
: kids to think it is acceptable.
:
: i would like to know everyone's thoughts on
: this situation. and those of you who have
: been through this please tell me of your
: experience.
:
: side note: he honestly thinks i am
: divorcing him because of the gay issue. lol.
: he does not believe that he has been
: abusive to me. this blows my mind.
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