Posted by seeking peace within on October 20, 2009, 2:44 pm, in reply to "Re: Q for single ladies without children..."
love yourself, love your kids... your girl will come along. remember, she has to accept you and your kids (not baggage). The girl I'm in lust with is an LLL. So she will NEVER want to get pregnant.. there are lezzies out there who want children.
take it slow..
SPW
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: thanks ladies. I needed that. and you're all
: right-- I do need to work on loving myself
: first before looking for someone who will
: love me and the kids. me and the kids need
: to come first, right?
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: --Previous Message--
: I'm actually more interested in my gf and
: our
: situation b/c she has children. I love her
: and she's a great partner. I love seeing her
: little peeps b/c they are parts of her. I
: personally never ever wanted to push out a
: kid -- so in our arrangement I still get to
: help parent (albeit in a very limited
: capacity right now), but I still get to have
: that experience. I don't think your two kids
: would be off putting. I could see rebellious
: teenagers trying to pull parent trap stunts
: to get the girlfriend to leave would be a
: bit of a hurdle, but as long as your kids
: are a little more chill than that .... lol
: you'll be fine. Work on loving yourself
: first and it will radiate. You will attract
: likeminded people.
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