Posted by xgirl on October 20, 2009, 12:48 pm, in reply to "Re: Q for single ladies without children..."
thanks ladies. I needed that. and you're all right-- I do need to work on loving myself first before looking for someone who will love me and the kids. me and the kids need to come first, right?
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: I'm actually more interested in my gf and our
: situation b/c she has children. I love her
: and she's a great partner. I love seeing her
: little peeps b/c they are parts of her. I
: personally never ever wanted to push out a
: kid -- so in our arrangement I still get to
: help parent (albeit in a very limited
: capacity right now), but I still get to have
: that experience. I don't think your two kids
: would be off putting. I could see rebellious
: teenagers trying to pull parent trap stunts
: to get the girlfriend to leave would be a
: bit of a hurdle, but as long as your kids
: are a little more chill than that .... lol
: you'll be fine. Work on loving yourself
: first and it will radiate. You will attract
: likeminded people.
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