Posted by NS on October 20, 2009, 8:28 am, in reply to "Dumped after divorce"
Sorry f2s...........I don't have any advice. Sounds like your gf has made some huge changes and you were her catalyst. I hope that you can appreciate the relationship for what it was and move on. I guess you are at different places in life........
--Previous Message--
: Hi everyone.
:
: I wanted to know whether any of you can
: offer insight, empathy, or advice for my
: situation. I spent a little over a year
: loving an amazing woman who I met just
: before her marriage to a man. A few months
: into her marriage, we confessed our feelings
: for one another, and began our romantic
: relationship. She moved out. She just
: finalized her divorce two months ago. Our
: entire relationship has been
: long distance since I am in grad school 1000
: miles away.
:
: The problem is, she dumped me three weeks
: ago for another woman! She said she wants to
: be with someone who is more
: excited about Big Issues like kids, moving
: in together, etc. . She has a point, but I
: thought we were working through these issues
: - and given our situation, I wanted/needed
: to take things slowly. This new woman is a
: friend of hers of several years who my
: now-ex is comfortable with, and who probably
: loves my ex. she's also telling my ex
: exactly what she wants to hear re: Big
: Issues (eg, they have already discussed this
: new woman's options for moving to my ex's
: home town!).
:
: I lam still very much in love with my ex,
: and I have no clue what to do or how to move
: on.
:
: Any thoughts?
:
: Thanks,
: Fun2Sail
:
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