Posted by sunflower577 on October 20, 2009, 6:01 am, in reply to "Q for single ladies without children..."
When my gf got me, she got my son as well. I don't know that she wanted children... but she is amazing with him. I know she loves him and he absolutely adores her. So much so, that I have, to the best of my ability, ensured that if anything should happen to me that they will be able to continue having a relationship.
I knew I had found a good person when after only knowing each other a short time, K said 'I am going to the bookstore' and my son (2.5 yrs old at the time) said 'okay' grabbed her hand and toddled along after her - leaving me still sitting in my chair. An amusing moment for all.
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: I have a hard time believing I will ever find
: someone who loves me and my two girls (ages
: 2.5 and 4). I feel like I just have too much
: baggage and who would want to go from being
: a single person to someone who has to deal
: with 3 additional people.
:
: So I have a question, and please be honest.
: Would you be willing to be with a person
: that has children? Is that a deal-breaker to
: you?
:
: I am in therapy for my self-loathing
: tendencies by the way. I love my kids and
: would never regret having them, but I
: sometimes feel like I will never meet
: someone who is amazing and perfect for me
: because of that.
:
: The GF who I've loved madly is leaving me
: for a silly thing that happened. She seemed
: to love the girls but never really seemed
: interested in being more than an occasional
: playmate. I couldn't see her wanting to live
: with the 3 of us. So maybe it's best that my
: soon-to-be-ex GF is on her way out the door.
:
: I hope to find "the one", but I'm
: feeling like maybe that person doesn't
: exist. I thought my GF was "it",
: but I guess she isn't. I'm sad.
:
: thanks for letting me get that out.
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