Posted by upsidedown on October 20, 2009, 12:54 am, in reply to "Q for single ladies without children..."
Well, I am not single and I DO have kids so I don't fall under who you were addressing this to in the least - however - my GF is not able to have children of her own due to medical issues in her early 20's. While 3 may be a little more than she bargained for, she has always wanted kids and hoped that someday she would meet a partner interested in having kids or already has kids.
I can understand the feeling though...all I can say is there are women out there looking for this and I'm sure women out there who don't know they are looking for it.
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: I have a hard time believing I will ever find
: someone who loves me and my two girls (ages
: 2.5 and 4). I feel like I just have too much
: baggage and who would want to go from being
: a single person to someone who has to deal
: with 3 additional people.
:
: So I have a question, and please be honest.
: Would you be willing to be with a person
: that has children? Is that a deal-breaker to
: you?
:
: I am in therapy for my self-loathing
: tendencies by the way. I love my kids and
: would never regret having them, but I
: sometimes feel like I will never meet
: someone who is amazing and perfect for me
: because of that.
:
: The GF who I've loved madly is leaving me
: for a silly thing that happened. She seemed
: to love the girls but never really seemed
: interested in being more than an occasional
: playmate. I couldn't see her wanting to live
: with the 3 of us. So maybe it's best that my
: soon-to-be-ex GF is on her way out the door.
:
: I hope to find "the one", but I'm
: feeling like maybe that person doesn't
: exist. I thought my GF was "it",
: but I guess she isn't. I'm sad.
:
: thanks for letting me get that out.
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