Posted by fun2sail on October 19, 2009, 11:50 pm
Hi everyone.
I wanted to know whether any of you can offer insight, empathy, or advice for my situation. I spent a little over a year loving an amazing woman who I met just before her marriage to a man. A few months into her marriage, we confessed our feelings for one another, and began our romantic relationship. She moved out. She just finalized her divorce two months ago. Our entire relationship has been
long distance since I am in grad school 1000 miles away.
The problem is, she dumped me three weeks ago for another woman! She said she wants to be with someone who is more
excited about Big Issues like kids, moving in together, etc. . She has a point, but I thought we were working through these issues - and given our situation, I wanted/needed to take things slowly. This new woman is a friend of hers of several years who my now-ex is comfortable with, and who probably loves my ex. she's also telling my ex exactly what she wants to hear re: Big Issues (eg, they have already discussed this new woman's options for moving to my ex's home town!).
I lam still very much in love with my ex, and I have no clue what to do or how to move on.
Any thoughts?
Thanks,
Fun2Sail
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