Posted by Miya on October 19, 2009, 10:30 pm, in reply to "Re: Q for single ladies without children..."
I'm a mom with teens with mental health issues, so I really feel like I'll never find anyone 
... but I do realize that if the woman was the right one, then they would be up for my family...
I really think there are lots of women out there who would love to become part of your family (my two oldest children were older than your eldest when we adopted them). I actually think it's an advantage that your kids are so young, as they can grow up with your future partner actually being their parent... but yes, you would need to find someone who wants a family (same as in the het world)...
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: There are women that alway wanted to be a
: parent but haven't been able to have any
: childen of there own. A friend of mine is
: like that, she would love to be in a
: relationship with someone who has children
: of the age of yours. I'm sure there are a
: lot more like her out there.
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: --Previous Message--
: I have a hard time believing I will ever
: find
: someone who loves me and my two girls (ages
: 2.5 and 4). I feel like I just have too much
: baggage and who would want to go from being
: a single person to someone who has to deal
: with 3 additional people.
:
: So I have a question, and please be honest.
: Would you be willing to be with a person
: that has children? Is that a deal-breaker to
: you?
:
: I am in therapy for my self-loathing
: tendencies by the way. I love my kids and
: would never regret having them, but I
: sometimes feel like I will never meet
: someone who is amazing and perfect for me
: because of that.
:
: The GF who I've loved madly is leaving me
: for a silly thing that happened. She seemed
: to love the girls but never really seemed
: interested in being more than an occasional
: playmate. I couldn't see her wanting to live
: with the 3 of us. So maybe it's best that my
: soon-to-be-ex GF is on her way out the door.
:
: I hope to find "the one", but I'm
: feeling like maybe that person doesn't
: exist. I thought my GF was "it",
: but I guess she isn't. I'm sad.
:
: thanks for letting me get that out.
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