Posted by SassyMom on October 19, 2009, 8:54 pm, in reply to "Q for single ladies without children..."
I know you posed your question to single ladies without children...Is that the only type you are looking for? I have also found myself thinking like you and then I was like, "hmmmm, why does it matter if my mate has children or not?" So maybe that "amazing and perfect" woman has children as well. Sometimes I feel like that would be the perfect match for me, but who knows. I feel clueless some days. lol....
Sassy
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: I have a hard time believing I will ever find
: someone who loves me and my two girls (ages
: 2.5 and 4). I feel like I just have too much
: baggage and who would want to go from being
: a single person to someone who has to deal
: with 3 additional people.
:
: So I have a question, and please be honest.
: Would you be willing to be with a person
: that has children? Is that a deal-breaker to
: you?
:
: I am in therapy for my self-loathing
: tendencies by the way. I love my kids and
: would never regret having them, but I
: sometimes feel like I will never meet
: someone who is amazing and perfect for me
: because of that.
:
: The GF who I've loved madly is leaving me
: for a silly thing that happened. She seemed
: to love the girls but never really seemed
: interested in being more than an occasional
: playmate. I couldn't see her wanting to live
: with the 3 of us. So maybe it's best that my
: soon-to-be-ex GF is on her way out the door.
:
: I hope to find "the one", but I'm
: feeling like maybe that person doesn't
: exist. I thought my GF was "it",
: but I guess she isn't. I'm sad.
:
: thanks for letting me get that out.
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